In The Bible Today; Proverbs 10

The Bible is a timeless text of perennial wisdom. It tells us not only of God and mankind, it guides us on our path as spiritual beings in human bodies.

Though the Bible sometimes seems inapproachable and complex, these studies are designed to make the Bible accessible to everyone and applicable to everyday life.

Namaste Friends.

Scripture: Proverbs 10:19 "When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise."

Observation: When we speak too much it won't be long before we say something we wish we hadn't. Talking without thinking leads us to say stupid, or worse yet, hurtful things. And once those words are out there, there is no getting them back. You can apologize, or say you didn't mean it, but it doesn't lessen the impact of what has been spoken.

A wiser approach is to take a moment to think before speaking. Do not begin formulating a response while someone else is talking. Genuinely listen to what is being said. Then think about what was said. If it is still necessary to respond, think first, speak second.

Often we think that adding more words will somehow make our point clearer, but as we continue to pile grievance upon grievance, more words often only adds fuel to the fire.

Sometimes in silence, peace can be found.

Application: I often allow my mouth to run ahead of my brain, and I always regret it. If, just for today, I engage my brain and step on the brakes before speaking, perhaps I will avoid hurting someone's feelings or sounding like a complete idiot.

It is often easier to pause for a moment and hold my tongue, than it is to take back hurtful words. Words are much like toothpaste, once they have been squeezed out, there is no getting them back in. I can remember many instances when I have spoken harshly, mostly to my children, but to other loved ones as well. The surprised, injured look on their faces lets me know immediately that I have gone too far. And once the damage is done, it takes much longer to undo. A parent or spouse must work harder to repair the damage to the heart of a child. When saying a kind word is not possible, it is better to just be quiet. Just be. That is the answer.

Prayer: Lord, walk with me today and help me be mindful in my speech. Help me be quick to listen, slow to speak, and even slower to become angry. Give me the proper words to speak, at the proper time and help me hold my tongue and exercise wisdom. Father strengthen me in prudence and self control.

Namaste friends.